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Jan 3, 2023Liked by Kevin Sessums

Thank you for this. It touched me very deeply, as I was admittedly rather obsessed with Barbara Howar, at one time. Your words never fail to move me.

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thanks you... hearing that moves me

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Jan 3, 2023Liked by Kevin Sessums

Thank you, thank you, thank you. I am constantly enthralled by your thoughts and writing.

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thank you . .that means a lot

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Jan 3, 2023Liked by Kevin Sessums

Thank you Kevin. I love this piece and all the thoughtful weaving together of such various folks including yourself. A writer you are indeed. And a happy and a healthy New Year to you.

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thank you so much ... sending you a happy new year

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Jan 5, 2023Liked by Kevin Sessums

Another amazingly poignant read, Kevin, thank you. And as you so aptly state, “it just is”. One day at a time. And in your words, “onward”. Onward.

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thank you so much

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Jan 4, 2023·edited Jan 4, 2023Liked by Kevin Sessums

When I was 14 I tried suicide. I say tried because to me I wasn’t ‘committing’ suicide. I felt invisible & lonely & scared and awkward and after my stomach was pumped @ the hospital and I came home - it was books & words that made me know I wasn’t alone in my pain. Words saved me. I wanted to be a writer because to me writers were - and are - heroes. True heroes. #PenSwords. Thank you for this. I met Whitney when my husband worked on Preachers Wife. She was often late & often sad and often stoned and it was Robin who would come & comfort her. Robin loved her so. Whitney gave my husband a beautiful gift, with a beautiful note, at the end of the shoot. You’re a remarkable man, Kevin. Thank you for showing us so much through your gorgeous words and that, yes, we matter.

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thank you for your kind words .. they - and you - mean the world to me

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I’m wondering, Kevin, if sobriety has sharpened your memories and whether you’re uncovering parts of the past long forgotten in the fog of addiction long gone?

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not really sharpened them just given them better context

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If we could have known then what we know now and believed it. Maybe wisdom isn’t learned unless it’s earned.

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